It’s that time of the year, when Wedding bells ring everywhere. You see proposals and engagement rings making their way through social media. All your friends and cousins are getting married and sending you invites. It’s so infectious that it makes you feel like getting married, too. You’ve got wedding fever.
Then, you think, do you have a guy? Yes. Is he the right one? If yes, why hasn’t he popped the question yet? Is he waiting for you to say something? Oh! This whole charade is driving you crazy, I know.
I have been in that place several times. I don’t know how many Christmases I have spent dreaming about walking down an aisle. Having people smile at me even though it’s my day they have come to celebrate. I never really imagined how my dress would be or how my hair would be tossed, whether I’d have a destination or theme wedding. However, I did dream of walking down an aisle to that one man smiling with me as we celebrate our day. I’ve got wedding fever, too. I get it every year around this time.
I would call this the season of love. Cold, wintery, snowy. Probably it’s not marriage jitters, it’s just winter shivers. But then, people do get married during spring.
I don’t understand why people have marriage jitters. Probably I’ll know when I get to that bridge. But it amazes me that despite a crazy day of hullabaloo, they are still happily married. No matter what be the mess, they pick up and waltz it away. Then, why be nervous?
I’m sure most of you watch AFV. If not, at least heard of it. I love to watch the wedding season. It’s like celebrating the chaos that happens at weddings. I laugh and think what if that happens at my wedding!? What if I experience marriage jitters and faint or the groom faints at the alter. Or the roof falls down at the party. Or there is a puddle that turns into a pool at the hotel we dine in. Lol. I don’t know what could be the worst except my groom walking out on me.
However, one thing I do know. That day, I’d be so filled with love, that anything that happens, would be only secondary to me.
Love is what keeps the party going. Whether it is love for or between the bride and groom or love for food and wine or just letting your hair loose and shaking a leg, a hip or a whole wiggly body.
Let’s share some quirky fun wedding moments and laugh away this season!
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