Love is not defined by happy times. It is defined through how it gets ahead of difficult times. It is figured through the many different emotions that make it happen. It is what makes the struggle worth. Have you ever felt love?
Heartaches can be painful, literally and emotionally. However, if you may have not noticed, relationships feed on brokenness. If you are broken inside, you become vulnerable. Love feeds on a vulnerable heart. It does sound like a preying monster but it does not have any negativity. Everybody needs love and they need it the most when they are broken inside. That explains artists writing love songs with a broken heart that become #1 tracks.
Love can be spent selflessly and yet bring happiness to your heart. What is a relationship that does not have problems? That is so perfect that it becomes mundane to just be together? That is a show-off but in reality without any emotion left? Make your relationship a meaningful one.
I keep telling people they will find someone who would love them more than themselves. But, honestly, if you love yourself, love will find you. And when it does, you better make sure it’s a keeper. It’s always that you find love, but you won’t be without either if you know how to love and accept yourself the way you are.
It was a difficult time accepting myself, my limitations and my worth. I still managed to do so. I do go back to that dark place at times, but never give up. I come back out into the illumination that love holds at the end of the tunnel.
Coming back to the beginning; if you and partner get through difficult times together and still accept each other with all those flaws you dare not display in public, you are almost there. Sometimes, just saying things out lot enlightens you about your own feelings. Figure what’s in your heart and show your partner what you lack in expressing ever so often. If you cannot speak to your partner, talk to someone who listens, then make things right in your life. You will find love or at least figure it out with your partner.
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